Category: Marriage
Total : 371 Results
Question ID 1644 Thursday 10th of July 2014
Question:
Salama alikum I want to marry as I have enough income and job, also after my repeated request my mother has finally selected a girl for me, both families have agreed but they are delaying the nikah for various reason. Like if a family person dies then you cannot marry for a year, plus if anyone elder than you is unmarried then first he/she should be married. My parents or girls parents never think that in this communication age we can be very easily tempted for Sin. I even requested my mother to get nikah done and Rukhsati can be done when ever the girls family feels prepared but every time i am compelled to hear some excuse. I am in dilemma, sometimes i think i am excessively pressing my parents, sometimes i think i am doing the right thing. I am extremely fearful that i can be tempted to a sin which could have been very easily avoided by my elders. What should i do now, i have lost all hope in persuading them because they never realize the problem i am stuck in?
Answer:
You may speak with respected person or persons who are known to your
parents to explain to your parents the harm of delaying the marriage when
it is needed and the necessity of quick action forvmarriage to save
their young son from sinful acts in today's circumstances.
If you can not find such persons who can convince your parents, then write
a detailed letter with very polite explanation to your parents .
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 1642 Wednesday 9th of July 2014
Question:
Asak, I'm mirza Shabbir ali, father's name- mirza hussain ali. have a proposal & her name is Nargis fatima, father name md. Nisar ali. can u see isteqara for me please. Khfz
Answer:
Istikhara is good.
Wassalam.
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Question ID 1634 Tuesday 8th of July 2014
Question:
Adaaab. I am syed boy and want to do muta with Hindu divorced lady and she follow me.pls tell me that it\\\'s right and possible in ramzaan month.what is valid ..
Answer:
She must become Muslim before you can do Mut'a with her. If she does not
become a Muslim, it is completely forbidden for you to do Mut'a with her.
After she becomes a Muslim, then Mut'ah is allowed being a temporary
marriage, and even Nikah will be allowed as permanent marriage.
Mut'ah is allowed even during the month of Ramzan but sexual intercourse is
forbidden during fasting day, but allowed during night.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 1626 Monday 7th of July 2014
Question:
As salamunalaikum, I have the permission of my wife to get into a Mutah marriage anytime in my life I want to. She is even okay if I get into a permanent marriage as well. I am considering a Mutah marriage after Mahe Ramazan. I am in a country where there are more alhe kitaab then our own people. Recently I went to an official seminar via my company there I saw one Christian lady who was all around me and was giving all signs that she is interested me. From her looks I liked her too, but given the conditions in Islam on interacting with women and me too being a shy guy, did not initiate any contact with her. However due to the confusion that whether I should have interacted with her or should I approach her with the intention of Mutah marriage, I removed an istekhara, which returned the ayat of Bismillah. Now sometime back I had heard in a majlis that in certain acts even removing istekhara is invalid,and is useless if done. I have 2 questions from the above: 1. Is this istekhara valid, I mean did I do right in doing so? 2. This seminar was a month ago, but I somehow know the work place of that lady, which is very near to my office, Is it ok that I go now and try to get in touch with her, with the pure intention of Mutah marriage? I am a follower of Ayatullah Sistani. Kindly advice Jazakallah
Answer:
If your wife has permitted you do so Mut'ah , you are allied to do so but
be careful from wrong type of women who run after worldly things and can
land you in trouble in future.
Wassalam
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 1614 Friday 4th of July 2014
Question:
salam alikum sayyed Can Nikah be recited when the bride is in menstruation period?
Answer:
Yes it is allowed to recite Nikah during menstruation. Reciting Nikah does
not mean sexual intercourse immediately. Sexual intercourse is not allowed
during menstruation. Talaq is not allowed during menstruation.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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