Category: Marriage
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Question ID 5513 Tuesday 27th of July 2021
Question:
When i was engaged i was talking to another guy as well and although i tried putting boundaries between the other guy and tried talking only as friends sometimes i may have crossed those boundaries despite having a fiancé. i want to ask now that i am married: a) will it be lying if i dont tell my husband about the other guy? b) should i tell my husband about the other guy ?
Answer:
No doubt, it was very wrong to talk to another guy while you were engaged and you need to seek forgiveness from Allah (SWT). You don’t need to tell any one including your husband about your sins but only Allah (SWT). You must beg to Allah to forgive your sins and decide to avoid major sins. Informing your husband might hurt his feelings and create rift between you and him which can harm you and him.
Wassalam.
Muhammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 5509 Saturday 17th of July 2021
Question:
As salaam o alaikum (Agha Mohammed Al Moosawi) my question is, Allah has each and every solution of each and every problem that a human being faces mentioned in the Holy qoran and also through Ahlulbayth A.S is there any name of Allah SWT or any dua in ahadees mentioned by Ahlulbayth A.S specially for a male for sexual strength, I am a hypo thyroid and a prostrate gland patient since many years. i have been facing many problems related to sexual performance in my married life. Kindly advise.
Answer:
*There is many Hadeeths that the greatest name if Allah in Bismillah
Arrahman Arraheem.*
*Repeating Ya Waliyyal A=E2=80=99aafiyah is also very useful as well as rep=
eating
the Quranic verse WA ITHA MARIDHTU FAHOWA YASHFEEN*
*Wassalam.*
*Muhammad al-Musawi*
Question ID 5469 Saturday 8th of May 2021
Question:
If husband and wife do anal sex only, no vaginal intercourse in case of a temporary marriage, would "iddah" still be required for a wife before getting into permanent marriage?
Answer:
*It is very bad to do anal sex even if the wife agrees.*
*Iddah is must as usual. Iddah after Mut=E2=80=99ah marriage is two menstru=
al
periods or 45 days. If the woman intends to have permanent marriage with
the same man with whom she had Mut=E2=80=99ah marriage, she does need Iddah=
, but if
she wants to get married to another man, she must observe Iddah.*
*Wassalam.*
*Muhammad al-Musawi*
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Question ID 5465 Wednesday 28th of April 2021
Question:
I am from Singapore and I have a girlfriend whom I intend to marry and she is from the Philippines. She was a Catholic and married to a man from Iran who was there to pursue his studies. Their marriage was not in the form of Islam. They had a civil marriage in the country. However, after a couple of years he went back to Iran and did not return. Neither was he in constant contact with her. In Philippines they do not have divorce, it is only annulment. This process may take years for it to have an verdict. The representing lawyer asked to pay the judge out of court inorder to expedite the process but we declined as we see it as a bribery and it is a sin in Islam.Since the marriage was not in the form of Islam is it considered valid in Islam? Can I marry her first while the case is still on going in court? Few years ago she has converted to Islam while working in Singapore. I am confused how to purse this matter. Please advise جَزَاكَ ٱللَّٰهُ خَيْرًا
Answer:
Wa Alaykum Assalam wr wb
If they were married, what type of marriage they had between them? Talaq is
must if there was a valid marriage. If no marriage then no question of
Talaq.
If they were living in sin, then no marriage.
Wassalam.
Muhammad al-Musawi
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> Category : Marriage
> Question : I am from Singapore and I have a girlfriend whom I
> intend to marry and she is from the Philippines. She was a Catholic and
> married to a man from Iran who was there to pursue his studies. Their
> marriage was not in the form of Islam. They had a civil marriage in the
> country. However, after a couple of years he went back to Iran and did no=
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> return. Neither was he in constant contact with her. In Philippines they =
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> not have divorce, it is only annulment. This process may take years for i=
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> to have an verdict. The representing lawyer asked to pay the judge out of
> court inorder to expedite the process but we declined as we see it as a
> bribery and it is a sin in Islam.Since the marriage was not in the form o=
f
> Islam is it considered valid in Islam? Can I marry her first while the ca=
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> is still on going in court? Few years ago she has converted to Islam whil=
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> working in Singapore. I am confused how to purse this matter. Please advi=
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Question ID 5454 Sunday 11th of April 2021
Question:
Is my daughters step father her mahram?
Answer:
Step father in law is not Mahram. Real father in law is Mahram.
Wassalam.
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