Category: Divorce

Total : 47 Results

Question ID 3082 Friday 22nd of January 2016

Question:

Salam, مراة خافت من بعلها نشوزا او اعراضا فلا جناح عليهما ان يصلحا بينهما صلحا والصلح خير واحضرت الانفس الشح وان تحسنوا وتتقوا فان الله كان بما تعملون خبيرا Salam Alikum !! Janab masla kuch ajeeb hai! hamari zoja ek Fareguttesil hain Jamiy-e-Tuzzahra(QOM) se aur aur me bahut kam ILM rakhta hun mene usi munasibat se mandarja bala ki aayat ka koi bih radde amal apni sharike hayat par nahi kiya kuch ghar walon ke aapsi takrav ki vajha se naubat Talak tak pahuch gayi! jab ke me use tableeg ke liye mukammal ijazat deta hun! is chiz ko chalte huve 4 mahine se zyada ho gaye hain! me ye nahi kehta ke galti meri ya mere ghar walon ki nahi hai is apsi ranjish me mumkin hai ke mere ghar walon ki galti ho! lekin me apni sharike hayat ke liye apni job chodh sakta hun me ek media company me (I.T Admin) ki post par hun aur me apni sharike hayat ko Takmilya karne ke liye phir se IRAN bejh sakta hun lekin mujhe talak dena gavara nahi! me kya karun Aaga kuch hal do mera fesla yahi hai ke me aur 5 saal wait karun uske Takmilya ke liye ya me bih ILM hasil karne ke liye ya job ki munasibat se IRAN chala jaun apni Wife ke sath ye duniya ke sabab meri zindagi aur Aakhirat dono jannum hone ka khuf hai mere liye koi personal nashist ka koi rahe hal nikalye take me maqul bat aap se ya aapke vakeel se bata sakun. HAIDER ABBAS

Answer:

Salamun Alaykum wr wb
You did not mention where you live so that I can request a respected Aalim
there to try to help you and your wife.
Wassalam.
Mohammad Al-Musawi

Question ID 3056 Saturday 9th of January 2016

Question:

Salam Maulana Is it necessary for a wife to hear a divorce wordings, if you have gone to a maulana for this purpose to read the divorce and he did inform my wife about it on phone which she didnt resist and agreed to go ahead for it.??

Answer:

Although Talaq is the most disliked Halal act to Allah (SWT) and it has
many conditions to be a valid Talaq, but we do not have a condition that
the wife must listen to the Talaq.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi

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Question ID 2945 Wednesday 18th of November 2015

Question:

Aoa.My brother is married with a sunni girl but he did a shia nikaah.after wedding his wife didnt let him come close to him and after a week or two she leave him without telling him anything and now she is not willing to come back.they got married in Jan 2014 now living seprate i want to know what is the status of their marriage?is it important for him to get help from court and divorce her?or their marriage is ended(annulled)? And is he bound to give her Meher?

Answer:

If she refused to fulfill her duties as a wife, she is a disobedient wife
and then she is not entitled to the rights of the wife on her husband.
If she does not want to live with her husband, and there is no hope at all
to bring her to live with him, then it is advisable for the husband to
release her so that she can go for her own life choice. No need for court,
as just Islamic divorce is enough.
Separation does not nullify marriage.
Wassalam.
Mohammad Al-Musawi

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Question ID 2858 Friday 9th of October 2015

Question:

Salam..mere husband ne dusri shadi kiye hai but meri permission ke bina..par mujhe abhi bhi doubt hai ke woh aurat mere husband ke nikkah mai nhi hai..kyu ki mujhe abhi tak mere husband ne nikkah ke paper nhi batae..n ye baat mere bacho ko bata ne maana kiye...toh mera sawal yahi hai ki kyaa mai ye dua mang sakti hu ye woh aurat mere husband se dur chale jae..kyaa ye dua karna jayaz hai?

Answer:

If you are sure that that woman is not a wife of your husband and the
relationship between them is sinful, then you can ask in Du'a that she
may be away from your husband.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi


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Question ID 2632 Sunday 28th of June 2015

Question:

Salaam I dont really know where to begin. I want to divorce my husand. I have been married for 3 years, and in those 3 years i have never felt so depressed in my whole life. i am in a 3 way marriage, me my husand and his mum. my mother inlaw has made my life difficult. she doesnt like anything i do and she oten complains to my husband about me. and they are over the must stupid things like she doesnt wear nice clothes, or i go to the masjid early with my father inlaw becuse idont want to sit with her and she always make fun of me and how i have been bought up in front of her friends. i come from a family of 6 sisters and im the youngest, i never learnt how to cook as my older sisters did it, and my mum told this to them before i got married. she makes fun of this. when i help her in the kitchen she always tells me to go. my husband doesnt include me in his life, every decsion he makes its without me and only listens to his famly. which is a good thing but i feel left out. i have supported myself in my marriage and i also give my husband money to support him. i get nothing from my husband, he is either at work, reciting majlis at meetings or in a class. he spends no time with me. i have caught him 3 times with other girls, sending dirty messages and asking them to meet. this has really upset me as i have done everything i can to support him and i never said no to him. he has no reason to see other girls. i not being arrogant in saying this but i am a very attractive girl and i keep myself beautiful. he has no excuse to see other girls. i married him as i thought he has a man of faith but he is not. i feel like he has lied to me. i had certain condtions in marraige, one of them being that he cant marry or do muta while being married to me, i asked for his support and asked for us to pray togther but i get nothing and i tired of this. i have bought his issuie up and to his parents but they say nothing to him. he wont give me a divorce and says he wants to give it one more chance but he has had 3 chances and the trust and love is not there. i hate him and i hate his mum and i dont want to go back there. he even spent the money i was saving for hajj and didnt give me permisson for hajj. when i went for ziyarat he cursed me and said my ibadat will never get accepted. what shall i do? i dont know where to go. i ont want to do a kulla divorce as he never supported me and i gave him money and he is in debt to me.

Answer:

Both of you need counseling to analyze the reasons behind the problems
between you. You may ask a respected person to arrange such counseling
soon. If you live in U.K. And need help, you may contact office of WABIL
020 84598475
Wassalam
WABIL
LONDON UK

WABIL - World Ahlulbayt(as) Islamic League, London.