Category: Family issues
Total : 74 Results
Question ID 2201 Wednesday 7th of January 2015
Question:
Assalamualikum ya syyed! Who is from the sadaat family? Is it permissible for a person to use the word Syed before his name if he is from the descendants of the other sons of Hazrat Syedna Imam Ali ( a.s), except Imam Hasan or Imam Hussain (a.s). ? Regards......
Answer:
Yes it is permissible because Sayyed means from Bani Hashim who are the
kinship of the Prophet (SAWA).
Wassalam
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 2091 Thursday 20th of November 2014
Question:
As salam un alaikum, A women has 2 boys in good health from her husband. But her husband wants a girl too, and wants to try once again. But the wife is against it. I have 3 questions for this issue. a. Can the wife refuse her husband this trial as she is not prepared for it physically, mentally and in any other way. However there is no danger to her health. b. If the doctor has refused her to have a third child and the husband considers this as a lie and is forcing her to have a child. There is danger to her life her. What should she do in this case. c. Can she ask for a divorce in any of the above 2 conditions if the husband is adamant to have a girl child with her only. Kindly advice Jazakallah
Answer:
Husband is not allowed to force his wife to be pregnant, but she must allow
him to sleep with her when ever he needs if there no religious or health
restrictions . She is free to use pills or any medication preventing
pregnancy as far as it does not disturb husband from his sexual rights as a
husband with his wife.
It is good for the wife to obey her husband in this matter as well, if
there is no risk on her life from pregnancy.
This difference does not make reason for Talaq. You will be then harming
the future of the two children beside destroying you family.
Wassalam
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 2063 Tuesday 11th of November 2014
Question:
Salamun Alaykom, On a recent trip abroad I experienced something unusual. I met a married couple that were unable to have children. The husband asked his married brother to have a child with his own wife and they adopted that child. Is this allowed, if so, what are the conditions? WasSalam
Answer:
How can a man have a child with a woman who is not his wife? That is a
major sin of fornication.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 2043 Thursday 6th of November 2014
Question:
Dear brother Asalam-Alaykum, in confidence and no matter what you tell me Insha-Allah it will be confidential, please reply with Istikhara result, my sister in milton keynes syeda farkhanda jabeen and her mum name is qamar nisa, syeda farkhanda jabeen is married wphth children, last 1 year she not respecting husband, shouting at children and goes to work outside , need to know if she commiting zinah and maybe has somebody outsie what she is doing outside and in private? please reply so i can save my sister marriage even if she is doing something. Jazak- Allah reply asap
Answer:
Istikhara means seeking guidance to do or not to do something. It is not
for guessing the behaviour of people or to guess what will happen.
If you need real istikhara, you may write again.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 2041 Thursday 6th of November 2014
Question:
my brother is torturing not only me but all the family members..my father died 5 years ago..we dont understand either he is doing all this intentionally or is he a psychiatric patient...what should i do
Answer:
The elders in the family or the community may talk to him politely.
Wassalam
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