Question ID 983 - 2013-12-28 06:11:51
Question:
If a wife's husband is gone for three years and they coomunicate via skype/video chatting, are they allowed to video chat and rub their own body parts(like wife rubbing her clitorus but NOT to the point of orgasm) infront of husband via skype?
Answer:
It is allowed for husband and wife to enjoy themselves between themselves
by each other but not by rubbing his own or her own body by his or her own
hand. Both can look at any part of the body of the other via Skype or any
other way of picturing or telecast,
But wife is not allowed to rubbi her clitorus by herself, and husband is
not allowed to rubb his own body by himself, although it is allowed for
both of them to rubb the body of the other when they are together.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
Question ID 982 - 2013-12-27 22:45:23
Question:
Aslam o Alikum Syed I have been married for 17 year. I am originally from pakistan. When I got married and came here, after a year of marriage my husband and father in law said to get a job. They found me a job and I started working.( I had to earn living to pay for all my expenses and off my children. Along work I had to do all the housework. I live in joint family whith my inlaws and three sister in laws and my husband and children. I had lots of problems and after 14 year i said to my husband i cant do this anymore and to move me out. he agreed to move me but he did not wanted to move and agreed to pay half of expenses to me for myself and children. Its been four years now and he does not pay me anything. Only thing he pay is mortgage of the house which he paid by the rent money from one of the rooms he let out to someone. It our house and I had to two rooms and he let out the third room. Even since i have moved I have been doing all my duties towards him including Intercourse. My question is if i am obligied to earn my own living and for kids aswell, do I have to obey everything he says. He is off sunni sect. My parents married me to him. He wants me to change my belief and not go to majalis and not see my family. I have one sister here and does not want me to see her or for her to come to my house. I hav the sole respossibility of children, and even he refused to takecare of them if i have to go somewhere. I dont ask for any unreasonable demands or to go palces where he does not like but all I ask is to see my sister and for her to visit me but he refuses. I have started to ger tired now. I dont want to divorce because of the imapct this will have on my children. He is so negtive and critical of everything I do. I dont get any comfort kindness sympathy love effection from him. I does not help me in any thing. Please syed tell me what shall I do? I have tried talking to him but he is so stuck in his ways that does not want to listen. Only way he says is, if i leave my belief and my family. Syed how can i do that? please help me. I try my best not to perform any acts which i will be held reponsible on the day of judgement but I started to get very tired now. Please help me and pray for me
Answer:
The husband is fully responsible to spend on his wife and children. Even if
he did not pay for your expenses, all the amounts remain a debt on him for
you.
You are not allowed to leave the Real Islam of the Prophet (SAWA) and his
Ahlul Bayt (AS) under any pressure. If your husband starts forcing you to
leave the True faith, you must then keep the faith and leave your husband.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 985 - 2013-12-29 12:54:20
Question:
Salam un Alaikum, Enemies refer to us Shias as 'Rafidhi' to mock us, but I have recently heard certain Shia scholars who say that the Imams(A.S) of Ahlul Bayt(A.S) taught us to proudly acknowledge this this title, what your opinion in this regard???
Answer:
Rafidhi means in Arabic : Rejector, and it is compulsory to reject the
wrong . We must be proud to reject the wrong and injustice done by the
enemies of Ahlul Bayt (AS), while they have rejected the Justice and the
Truth. We have in many Hadeeths that our Infallible Imams told the
believers : You have rejected the wrong while your enemies have rejected
the Truth.
There are narrations that the name Raafidhi was granted by Allah to the
believers who rejected the false claims of Firaon and believed in the Truth
of Musa (AS), and they were known by people as Raafidhi, and our Imams (AS)
have said that this title is an honor and a gift from Allah (SWT) to the
believers. Imam Mohammad al-Baqir (AS) was reported to say : I am a
Raafidhi.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 984 - 2013-12-29 01:23:27
Question:
A baligh girl, aged 10 years has a medical condition in which she has a dripping problem, possibly urine. She seems to leak liquid involuntarily possibly urine when she coughs or stretches her legs. Will this liquid be considered najis? or will the following fatwa apply? 78. Istibra is not meant for women, and if she sees any liquid and she doubts whether it is urine, that liquid is Pak, and it will not invalidate Wudhu and Ghusl.
Answer:
If she is not sure that the dripping liquid is urine, then it is not Najis,
but if she knows that it is urine, then and only then, it is Najis.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 987 - 2013-12-30 19:10:53
Question:
Salaam Alaikum respected Sheikh, I hope and pray you are keeping well and in good health Insha'Allah. I am a muqallid of Ayatullah Sistani. Could you please advise if in a marital relationship, the husband is permitted to have a vasectomy, if both husband and wife do not plan to have any more children, and he has his wife's full consent and agreement to do this procedure? If not permissible, what other halal options of similar nature would be permissible islamically to the couple, for permanent birth control? Thanks and I look forward to hearing back from you soon. Regards, Mohamed
Answer:
Permanent birth control by surgery or any other way is not allowed, but
temporary birth control is allowed. No matter of permission of the wife or
the husband as the act itself is not allowed.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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