Question ID 430 - 2013-04-24 15:40:13
Question:
Sallam alaykum Syed, I pray to Allah swt that you are in good health. I am in a very bad situation in my house, I am newly Married and living with my parents, but now have a problem, we have a big fight between my parents and my wife, also with my sister, my wife feels they have not treated her properly, which is not true completely, she is to sensitive so any word makes her upset. My parents are dependent on me on this house as I pay the bills. now my wife wants me to leave my parents and move away. Which i cant do. She will not try and to fix the problem, and curses my parents. Please give me advise, I follow Syed Sistani as my Marja. Thank you
Answer:
You should not leave your parents and serving them under any circumstance.
You should convince your wife to understand your responsibility as a son
and make her aware that any act which hurts the parents will bring wrath
and misery in this life and here after. Does she want her husband to be
cursed by Allah ?
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 440 - 2013-04-27 23:20:47
Question:
بسمه تعالى If they do not contain haram or impure ingredient, Subject: Auyrved product ——————— Slaamunalycum Sir, Iam open shop for daily uses and auyrved health product in mumbai thane mumbra. The product made by baba ramdev [ the name of product patanjali product and health, ayurveda ] all product in packed but maintion his name and logo like oum and his photo we can sale and eat item and in the some medicine are using cow urine thanks shukreya yours zaidi waslaam.
Answer:
It is allowed to sell and consume such products if the products do not
contain Haraam or impure ingredient. Cow urine is not Najis as the urine of
every animal which is allowed for eating.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 445 - 2013-05-01 04:59:58
Question:
Salaam Alaikum respected Sheikh, I hope and pray you are keeping well and in good health insh. I have a question for which I am hoping you can provide some guidance (I do taqleed of Ayatullah Sistani). I asked this question on Ayatullah Sistani's website several months ago and have still not received a response. In a marital relationship, if the husband suffers from a severe Premature Ejaculation problem and is unable to fully satisfy his wife during sexual intercourse, is he permitted to use a sexual aid (e.g. battery operated vibrator/sex toy/dildo)during sex with her, to enhance the process and help his wife also achieve sexual gratification and reach her climax? I have read from other sources that it is permissible as long as the sexual aid does not penetrate the vagina i.e. external stimulation only is permissible with a sex toy, however, I just wanted to double check with you. Also, to clarify, the sexual aid (if permissible islamically) would only be used between husband and wife as a couple during sex, and never for self-stimulation when alone. Thanks and I look forward to hearing back from you soon. Regards, Mohamed
Answer:
It is allowed for husband and wife to use sexual aid only between them.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 449 - 2013-05-03 23:15:12
Question:
Slamunalycum Sir, I am v sorry to say some few lines [but I have no right to say] that just some suggestion that sir, u instruct the concern staff to revise all cases every term period door to door and confirm what is the current financial position how many person depend him how much income etc. his son is working or not by neighbor or other then certify by respected local ulma if find wrong information I will take serious action against because some are miss using aid by u . May be that time was necessary aid and present time is may be better finance position. Aid person was not like to work because all purpose is completed by aid like education medical, house , food . Here is in Mumbai mumbra some people waslaam sorry for inconvenience zaidi
Answer:
Salam wr wb
Thank you very much. We are trying to do so to make the help go only to the really deserving persons. If you have any useful details or authentic information, please inform us.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
Question ID 452 - 2013-05-06 11:22:52
Question:
SALAAMUN ALAIKUM...sir i am a 20 year old youngster. From last year onwards I have caught up with the bad habit of masturbating and day-by-day it seems to become like an addiction...i continuously try to resist myself and get rid of my strong sexual desires but i always become unsuccessful and finally this sexual urge culminates in my ejaculation....... plz help me to get rid of this habit...i have written many arizaas to IMAAM-E-ZAMAANAA(A.T.F.S.) but i have had got no help in controlling myself.I offer lot of duaas and supplications to ALLAAH SUBHAANU WA TAALAA but i am still failing again and again in front of shaitaan(L.A.Q.Z.)...PLZ GUIDE ME...with regards and duaas for you...khudaa-haafiz.
Answer:
=D9=90ARIZA alone will not help if you do not be strong enough to reject
Satanic desires.
.You must train your will power to be stronger and stronger. It is like
an exercise
1. You need to fast as many days as you can because fasting helps
in controlling sexual desire.
2. When Shaitan tells you to masturbate, remember the sever punishment of
hell fire. Make your hand near any fire and ask yourself whether you will
tolerate the hell fire which is millions of times bigger than the fire of
this world. You also remember the Paradise and what Allah (SWT) has kept
for those who obey Him and keep themselves away from evil desires.
3. You need to repeat seeking forgiveness of the previous sins
and repent and decide not to do it again. Masturbation is a major sin which
leads if not forgiven to hell-fire.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi