Question ID 525 - 2013-06-10 17:40:04
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Sallam alaykum, I pray to Allah swt you are in good health, I have asked a previous question on ID 430. I have tried to explain to my wife your answer, which she does not agree she thinsk wife is more important, I am considering divorce, the reason being she has started to swear at my mother and father, and cause even more trouble in my house, she wants me to leave, and prays for the worst to happen to my parents. I have sat down with the local imam, and explained the situation, but she still rejects this. Anything you explain to her from the teachings of Ahlulbayt a.s she advises this advise is 1400 yrs old and has no relevance in todays society which is wrong. I have tried my best, thank you for your advice in advance.
Answer:
Tell her to read what the Prophet (SAWA) and Ahlul Bayt (AS) have said in this matter. She will be in future passing through same situation of your parents today, if she lives, does she want good treatment from her children then or want them to leave her and go with their wives?
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 523 - 2013-06-10 08:23:51
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Salam alaikum Can you please tell me how many minutes before sunrise should we stop eating? and also how many minutes after sunset should we start eating.I am very confused because some people wait 5min 10 min and we have been told to wait 20 min so which one is right. Thank you
Answer:
We must stop eating and drinking before Fajr time, and as it is difficult to know now a days the exact time of Fajr, it is a precaution to stop few minutes before the time which is published just to be on the safe side. If you know for sure the exact time of Fajr, you can eat till one minute before the exact time of Fajr.
Breaking fast is when the night starts as we read in Quran ( then complete the fast till night). The night starts after the reddish ness of the light on the east vanishes. It vanishes between 8 to 15 minutes after sunset.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 522 - 2013-06-10 07:16:52
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Salam alaikum Sayed Moosavi Can you please tell me the islamic date of birth of Nabi Isa. Since it is not recomemded to throw hair and nails in the dustbin can we flush them down? Thank you
Answer:
We don't have the exact date of the birth of prophet Easa (AS).
Flushing hair and nail with the waste is not good at all. It is recommended to bury it.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
Question ID 521 - 2013-06-10 07:10:48
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Salams, my question is about my marriage. I'm unsure if I'm still married. She denounced islam she only knows Islam from me she only accepted Islam believing that was the only way to get me. Now we have 2 children 7 years...I left the home to prevent violence she moved on slept with another man now she feels we are still married But I don't know I have also been in a mutah she is claiming to work on her islam to save the marriage But not herself what do I do?
Answer:
If she says that she is a Muslim, your marriage is still valid. If she says that she is not Muslim but considering to be a Muslim or studying Islam, then your marriage is not valid. If she becomes a Muslim, and you want to live together as husband and wife, you need to have a new marriage agreement Aqd of Zawaaj.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 527 - 2013-06-11 03:28:24
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I am married person living in Dubai but my wife does not live with me and we meet around every 4-6 months. I want to do mutaah with a local girl to fulfill my marital desires but I dont find a shia girl here. Can I do Mutaah with a christian girl who is living here on work visa?? what are the requirements to do that???
Answer:
According to Ayatullah Sistani , you need your wife's permission to have Muta with a Christian woman. No remission is required if you do Muta with a Muslim woman.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi