Question ID 3287 - 2016-04-25 00:44:25
Question:
salam allekum aga, My mother is ill and old due to that she is not able to fast for the last couple of years.can i or any of my sibling fast on the behalf of our mother.
Answer:
No, it is not allowed to fast any obligatory fast on behalf a living
person. If she is unable to fast, she must feed one person for every day
that she is unable to fast. This is called Fidyah.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi
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Question ID 3302 - 2016-04-30 04:40:39
Question:
1) If semen is on hand or body, do i need to wash it with soap before i make it tahir with water? 2) do i need to rub my hand ( do masah ) on my body while doing ghusl or can i just let water pour on my body?
Answer:
> Question : 1) If semen is on hand or body, do i need to wash it
> with soap before i make it tahir with water?
A1) you must remove the seven whether with plane water or soap or any other
> way. Semen must be removed then use water to make your hand Taahir.
Q2) do i need to rub my hand ( do masah ) on my body while doing ghusl or
> can i just let water pour on my body?
> A2) You need to make water reach to your body, whether with rubbing or
> with out it. Rubbing itself is not obligatory, but making water reach to
> your body is obligatory.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi
Question ID 3301 - 2016-04-29 05:03:07
Question:
Asalaam Alaikum, Since childhood my sister has had a jealous nature which often results in many family disputes. She has a lot of anger in her, but does not take responsibilities for her mistakes but instead blames others for things which have gone wrong in her life. This also contributed to the breakdown of her marriage, now she has returned to her parental home with her daughter. Her daughter is now 4 years old. Whenever my sister contributes to an argument, she does not allow anyone to take her daughter out of the situation, but instead forces her to stay in this negative environment. Whenever my sister has a disagreement with anyone at home, she tells her daughter to stop talking and interacting with certain family members. She tells her that her extended family members do not care for her or her daughter and that we only care about ourselves. She does not take our advice and remains angry with everyone. We all love her and her daughter very much, but she is now putting hatred into the heart of her daughter towards her extended family. Her daughter is also developing anger too. We are uncertain how to help her, please could you advise us?
Answer:
Good attitude and bad attitude can not be changed but when the person
himself or herself decides to change after being convinced that he/ she
needs to change. One of the best ways to convince the person is to make his
or her friends talk to him about the harms of bad attitude and the need for
change. Try to make her friends talk to her gently to explain the harm of
bad behavior on her and more importantly on her child.
No doubt, Du'a is very useful always for every matter.
You also need to avoid any word or act which can make her angry and try
your best to treat with her in a nice way. That should make her respond
with a nice way as well.
Wassalam.
Mohammad Al-Musawi
Question ID 3300 - 2016-04-29 02:45:20
Question:
Assalam Alaikum WRWB. Question 1 :--- Ghar mein painting keya non Muslim se kara sakte hain ? Question 2:--- Agar ye jaane beghair ki painter muslim hai ya hindu painting karwali baad mein pata chala ki painter hindu tha to ab hamari shrai takleef keya hai ? Question 3:--- Aise ghar mein namaz aur Nazar Niyaz ka kiya hukm hai jis ghar ki Painting Hindu ne ki ho ? Wassalam Jazakallah khair.
Answer:
Mushrik painter who did not touch the paint with wet hands, did not make
the painted items Najis. If Mushrik used Najis paint, then you can make the
painted items, wall Paak by pouring water on it.
Namaz , Niyaz is allowed in such house even before making the walls Paak.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi
Question ID 3303 - 2016-04-30 18:24:32
Question:
Wabil walidaina ahsana Does a girls parents in law come under this category? Please elobrate a little
Answer:
Walidain are the real father and the real mother.
Being good to the parents in law is very good and it has also the reward of
pleasing the husband which is a great reward.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi