Category: Marriage
Total : 371 Results
Question ID 5756 Monday 3rd of October 2022
Question:
Assalamualaikum... My question is regarding a person who is engaged in a relationship with a girl (who is ahle sunnah) Now She has accepted Shieism and her father is also accepted to marry her daughter too (i.e permanent marriage). But they both (Girl and boy)meet each other and talk quite frequently which we all know is haram before marriage. Now they decided to do MUTAH...but the girl father is not aware of this Marriage contract and he will not allow her to do that as you know that all ahle Sunnah is strictly against Mutah So in this situation what should be done to avoid any sin.
Answer:
Wa Alaykum Assalam Wr wb.
Some of the Maraaje=E2=80=99 of Taqleed ( Ayatullah Sayyed Mohammad Sa=E2=
=80=99eed
Al-Hakeem) allowed Mut=E2=80=99ah in such cases with a condition from the g=
irl
which is binding you not to have any sexual relationship with her during
the Mut=E2=80=99ah contract.
Wassalam.
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Question ID 5748 Sunday 4th of September 2022
Question:
Assalamualaikum Agha. My question is regarding my wife.She is not at all interested in making sex with me.So whenever I ask her she refused and ask me do masturbation.She stopped sleeping with me too since more than one year.Can I masturbate.
Answer:
*Masturbation is Haraam and your wife has no right to tell you to do that.
She is responsible to fulfil her duties as a wife. Her failure in
fulfilling her duties does not mean that you commit sinful act of
masturbation.*
*Wassalam.*
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Question ID 5743 Wednesday 24th of August 2022
Question:
Salam. I am a shia muslim boy from Pakistan, currently studying and living in Germany. I am 24 years old. I want to marry a sunni girl. She does veil(parda), she is educated. I want to do love marriage with her. I have considered all the aspects as well. The girl is completing her Masters degree from Pakistan prestigious institute. But, my father does not allow me to marry her , as my father says "we are syed, we should marry in our own family". My father humiliates the girl and her home by saying they are from lower caste and I should not marry a sunni girl. She is muhib e Ehl e bayt (as). She has no hatred. I love the girl and I believe with the help of Allah Almighty, I will make a good understanding with her as I have known her from many long time, and we will live happily. (InshaAllah). My mother says she is with me. She has totally allowed me this marriage from all her heart. But my father keeps making hurdles and emotional blackmail everytime I say anything about my marriage. What should I do? Marja agha bashir najfi
Answer:
Wa Alaykum Assalam wr wb
Love is an emotional state which does not remain forever. Millions of young
people had love marriages but emotions did not remain the same. You should
be realistic and think about the future when emotions from both sides
diminish or decrease. Are you sure that this girl will be good wife
following Ahlul Bayt (AS) and bringing your children to be on loving and
following Ahlul Bayt (AS)? Are you sure that she will not return back to
her family history and sect?
After considering these factors and related issues, you should weight the
plus points against minus points.
You don=E2=80=99t need your father=E2=80=99s permission for your marriage b=
ut you should
keep the respect of your parents and never hurt them.
Wassalam.
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Question ID 5741 Wednesday 24th of August 2022
Question:
Salam. I am a shia muslim boy from Pakistan, currently studying and living in Germany. I am 24 years old. I want to marry a sunni girl. She does veil(parda), she is educated. I want to do love marriage with her. I have considered all the aspects as well. The girl is completing her Masters degree from Pakistan prestigious institute. But, my father does not allow me to marry her , as my father says "we are syed, we should marry in our own family". My father humiliates the girl and her home by saying they are from lower caste and I should not marry a sunni girl. She is muhib e Ehl e bayt (as). She has no hatred. I love the girl and I believe with the help of Allah Almighty, I will make a good understanding with her as I have known her from many long time, and we will live happily. (InshaAllah). What should i do ?
Answer:
Wa Alaykum Assalam wr wb
Love is an emotional state which does not remain forever. Millions of young
people had love marriages but emotions did not remain the same. You should
be realistic and think about the future when emotions from both sides
diminish or decrease. Are you sure that this girl will be good wife
following Ahlul Bayt (AS) and bringing your children to be on loving and
following Ahlul Bayt (AS)? Are you sure that she will not return back to
her family history and sect?
After considering these factors and related issues, you should weight the
plus points against minus points.
You don=E2=80=99t need your father=E2=80=99s permission for your marriage b=
ut you should
keep the respect of your parents and never hurt them.
Wassalam.
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Question ID 5740 Wednesday 24th of August 2022
Question:
Salam. I am a shia muslim boy from Pakistan, currently studying and living in Germany. I am 24 years old. I want to marry a sunni girl. She does veil(parda), she is educated. I want to do love marriage with her. I have considered all the aspects as well. The girl is completing her Masters degree from Pakistan prestigious institute. But, my father does not allow me to marry her , as my father says "we are syed, we should marry in our own family". My father humiliates the girl and her home by saying they are from lower caste and I should not marry a sunni girl. She is muhib e Ehl e bayt (as). She has no hatred. I love the girl and I believe with the help of Allah Almighty, I will make a good understanding with her as I have known her from many long time, and we will live happily. (InshaAllah).
Answer:
Wa Alaykum Assalam wr wb
Love is an emotional state which does not remain forever. Millions of young
people had love marriages but emotions did not remain the same. You should
be realistic and think about the future when emotions from both sides
diminish or decrease. Are you sure that this girl will be good wife
following Ahlul Bayt (AS) and bringing your children to be on loving and
following Ahlul Bayt (AS)? Are you sure that she will not return back to
her family history and sect?
After considering these factors and related issues, you should weight the
plus points against minus points.
You don=E2=80=99t need your father=E2=80=99s permission for your marriage b=
ut you should
keep the respect of your parents and never hurt them.
Wassalam.
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