Question ID 1001 - 2014-01-03 10:44:51
Question:
Assalam Alaikum, 1-Is it allowed for a women to cook and eat food for nazar-e-masoomeen and fateha during menstruation?As per Ayatullah Seestani. 2- Can a momin(sayyed male) eat food which is nazr of Bibi Fatema Zehra(A.S)and aseeran e karbala? 3- can a momina recite Hadees e kisa and tilawat of Quraan paak in presence of namahram males? 4- I live in USA ..here we have western style commode system,can we pray namaz after using this seat,? or gusl is necessary for namaz?
Answer:
> 1- Is it allowed for a women to cook and eat food for nazar-e-masoomeen
> and fateha during menstruation?As per Ayatullah Seestani.
A1. Yes it is allowed.
2- Can a momin(sayyed male) eat food which is nazr of Bibi Fatema
> Zehra(A.S)and aseeran e Karbala ?
A2. Yes it is allowed.
> 3- can a momina recite Hadees e kisa and tilawat of Quraan paak in
> presence of namahram males?
A3. Yes it is allowed if it does not cause bad effect on males.
> 4- I live in USA ..here we have western style commode system,can we pray
> namaz after using this seat,? or gusl is necessary for namaz?
> A4. Yes you can pray if your cloth and body are Taahir. Ghusl is not
> necessary if there is no State of Janabah, or other reasons of obligatory
> Ghusl.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
Question ID 995 - 2014-01-01 15:40:31
Question:
Salam Is a vasectomy allowed for a woman who is 40 years of age and has grown up children. The conventional methods of contraception such as iud(coil) are causing problems and would like to consider a vasectomy to overcome these issues. I would a appreciate reply . Thankyou Salam
Answer:
Any medical intervention which prevents pregnancy permanently is not
allowed in Islam, while if the effect is temporary, then it becomes allowed.
Vasectomy is no exception.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
Question ID 994 - 2014-01-01 14:01:51
Question:
When people drag a woman to the level she started loving them as their (in laws) if they were never confirmed about future.Does someone who creates such immense pain for somebody for no reason get their punishment?
Answer:
Causing pain to any innocent human being is a major sin. Dragging a woman
to false relationship and causing her pain for no real reason is a major
sin.
The women herself must be aware not to be carried away, and she must use
her senses and not to be blind after emotions. If she opens doors to a man
to drag her, she will be also a partner in this sin.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
Question ID 993 - 2014-01-01 09:17:16
Question:
I have an old speaker system which I would like to sell but worried that the buyer Muslim/non Muslim May use it for listening to unlawful music or songs etc. should I be concerned about it or it is not my responsibility as I sell in good faith. Can I apply the logic that I may be selling a knife and it remains the buyers responsibility to either use it in the kitchen or to harm someone.
Answer:
If the sound system is such that it can be used in lawful acts as well as
in unlawful acts, then you are allowed to sell it to a person whom you do
not know that he will use it in Haraam.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 996 - 2014-01-02 05:24:24
Question:
Assalaam wa alaikum, I recently learned while using my father\\\'s phone (with his permission), that he is having a sexual relations with another woman. He had text messages on there that he forgot to erase. I don\\\'t know if he has done muttah or did a second permanent marriage with this woman. She is sunni. Is that marriage valid as he never informed my mother. Also, my mother\\\'s mother passed away 2 months ago and my mom was in her home country at that time. My mother made it mandatory for my mother to work for the past 30 years. She was the one that was making most of the money. He invested a great deal of that money that he lost several years ago without her knowledge as she had no power over her finances. He is using part of his savings, and now part of the money that she is making to support this other woman. My mother does not know about any of this. Is the marriage still valid? Also, due to my father forcing her to work, she was unable to fulfill his intimate needs at times, but this was because she was forced to work many hours a day due to her profession, what is the ruling on that? And how does this affect the second marriage if at all? I don\\\'t know how to tell my mother, I need help please as she is already grieving from the loss of her mother. She has suffered a great deal because of my father, due to his ill usage of language and abuse of her finances. I have suffered as well due to other abuses. We do not live in London, and there are very few people here that I can turn to for help. I am concerned about my mother\\\'s well being as she is overworked and frail now, and her emotional well being from this shock she may have to take.
Answer:
1. It is not allowed for you to inform your mother about this matter, and
if you inform her you will be committing many major sins including
disclosing a secret, hurting your father, hurting your mother and back
biting of your father.
2. Your father knows what is the type of marriage he had with that lady and
you are not concerned to know the details. His marriage whether temporary
or permanent is valid and it does not require informing his first wife nor
seeking her permission.
3. Your mother's money is her money and your father has no right to take
her money with out her full consent and approval.
4. Pray for your parents and never add on their sufferings by disclosing
such matters which will not help them at all.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
On Wed, Jan 1, 2014 at 3:24 PM, Aneesa
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> Mr/Mrs Aneesa
> posted a new question on wabil website, the details are below...
> Category : Marriage
> Question : Assalaam wa alaikum, I recently learned while using my
> father\\\\\\\'s phone (with his permission), that he is having a sexual
> relations with another woman. He had text messages on there that he forgot
> to erase. I don\\\\\\\'t know if he has done muttah or did a second
> permanent marriage with this woman. She is sunni. Is that marriage valid
> as he never informed my mother. Also, my mother\\\\\\\'s mother passed
> away 2 months ago and my mom was in her home country at that time. My
> mother made it mandatory for my mother to work for the past 30 years. She
> was the one that was making most of the money. He invested a great deal of
> that money that he lost several years ago without her knowledge as she had
> no power over her finances. He is using part of his savings, and now part
> of the money that she is making to support this other woman. My mother
> does not know about any of this. Is the marriage still valid? Also, due
> to my father forcing her to work, she was unable to fulfill his intimate
> needs at times, but this was because she was forced to work many hours a
> day due to her profession, what is the ruling on that? And how does this
> affect the second marriage if at all? I don\\\\\\\'t know how to tell my
> mother, I need help please as she is already grieving from the loss of her
> mother. She has suffered a great deal because of my father, due to his ill
> usage of language and abuse of her finances. I have suffered as well due
> to other abuses. We do not live in London, and there are very few people
> here that I can turn to for help. I am concerned about my mother\\\\\\\'s
> well being as she is overworked and frail now, and her emotional well being
> from this shock she may have to take.
>
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