Question ID 536 - 2013-06-16 16:43:44
Question:
Salam, is it wajib for a girl(Sunni) who wants to do mutah but her father won't allow to do so? And if she is a virgin? M too confused because i heard some where, its not wajib it is just recommended act, in the case where girl is sane and independent to make her decisions? Plz let me know
Answer:
Father's permission is must in his virgin daughter's marriage, unless he
refuses the marriage for invalid reasons, and she needs to marry to save
herself from sin. In such cases of Mut'a marriage, no sexual intercourse
should be iallowed.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 535 - 2013-06-15 08:57:29
Question:
Assalam-o-alaikum i m too much worrid and need ur guidance as i follow Janab Ali Sestani..i m badly in need of reply as my health getting down due to thinking about my issues as follows 1: i was university student and virgin syeda shia girl totally financialy dependent upon my parents and mentally prepare to do arrange marriege but my class fellow insisted me to do friendship and finally he succeeded and at last to avoid sin he did muttah with me in which we properly recite seegha in arabic by selecting limit ( until i get marry to another man of my family choice ).i did not even inform my parents beacuse i knew that there are other syed man propsals every time ready for me and i know that my father will never ever be satisfied for my muttah with non-syed boy.after reamaining our muttah about 3 years i get engaged with a syed boy to whome me and my family was satisfied.i asked my muttah husband to shortened muttah limit to 1 month only as my matrimonial ceremony was decided after 6 months.so me and my muttah husband set time limit 1 month and read and write seegha in urdu but even dont mention time limit in reading and writing statement as he said that he will get sign this written marriage paper ( manually by hand ) by his two friends as witness so i dont mention muttah limit as witness dont believe in muttah but absolutely that muttah time was set in our mind and out intention was 1 month muttah period,well after 1 month we seperated and the whole story my parents were totally unaware of my muttah with my class fellow,after 6 months i married to my fiancee and now i have 2 kids....sir i m worried from 2 aspects 1: was my both muttahs were invalid so did i need Astaghfar as i did muttah without even letting know my father? and secondly i m worrid that as i did not recite muttah seegha while mentioning muttah limit but keeping time limit 1 month in mind so i m confused that whether that second one muttah was permanent nikah ? if it is so means that i m in haraam relation with my permanent nikah second husband and growing up illegal childs? sometimes when i think so i behave so rude with my husband and brutely hit my kids by thinking that they are illegal ? plz plz solove my issue as i cant sleep whole nite............
Answer:
Your kids are not illegal.
Wassalam.
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Question ID 531 - 2013-06-14 02:59:25
Question:
salaam u alaikum, first of all i would like to say thankyou for all the answers you have provided me and the help you have given me with the blessing of Allah (SWT), i really appreciate it. My question is, when making a manat/nazar are there any conditions as to what i can ask for ? and what i will vow to do once granted that ? if so, what are they ?
Answer:
You can ask for any lawful need or wish.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
Question ID 530 - 2013-06-12 09:37:36
Question:
salam alaikum A wife gets every month an amount of money from her husband to spend on houshold items.If she manages to save some money at the end of the month can she keep it and maybe use it sometime later when in need or does she have to tell him about it?
Answer:
If the money was given to her as a gift or with out any condition, she can
keep what remains, but if it was given to her by her husband just for house
expenses only, then the remaining money is owned by the husband and she
needs to seek his permission to use it in other purpose.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 503 - 2013-05-29 20:09:45
Question:
Salam. Can I perform salat, reciting in silent way or it should be with the voice?
Answer:
Salaat must be recited with voice (either clear or low), but not always
clear voice. Clear voice is must for men reciting Morning, Maghrib and Esha
Prayers. Other prayers (Dhuhr and Asr) are to be recited with low voice
like whispering (Ikhfaat).
We do not have in Islam any silent prayer.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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