Question ID 1491 - 2014-06-11 22:11:51
Question:
i have two problems 1) i forget things really fast within mints and some time within secs. 2)i have OCD obsessive compulsive disorder i keep cleaning my hands and keep taking baths. im not mentally retarded. im a PhD student but still i do forget specially in terms of ghusal . now my questions are (*) if i do ghusal and perform all the three farads of ghusal cleaning mouth nose and pouring water three times from one shoulder to the other but i dont remember if i have cleaned my belly button or not then in that doubtful situation is my ghusal valid or not? (*) What if i come out of the wash room and walk on the carpet and wear a cloth or touch anything and then remember that i didnt perform the ghusal correct or im sur that i missed the belly button will the thing i touched the carpet the clothes the food i touched will that all be najas? please help me...
Answer:
1. Ghusl obligatory acts are three :1- Making water reach head, face and
neck,
2- then making water reach right side of the body,
3- then making water reach left side of the body. Doubting does not have
any effect if it happens after performing the act in any of these three. If
you doubt during washing any part, you may make water reach to it, then
matter ends.
2. Whether your Ghusl is valid or invalid, touched items are not Najis.
You should care for repeated doubts.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 1492 - 2014-06-11 22:18:12
Question:
im 28 my parents want me to get married. but i dont feel like getting married i dont get sexually attracted to females. i dont get an erection for the females. what should i do? i feel i would do zulum on that girl if i marry her. i cant do that.
Answer:
Marriage is the act and Sunnah of the Prophet (SAWA) and his holy Progeny
Ahlul Bayt (AS).
You may seek a medical advise.
Go for marriage as soon as possible and obey your parents who are asking
for a blessed act encouraged by the Prophet (SAWA).
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 1494 - 2014-06-12 10:46:02
Question:
Assalamu alaikum, I have a question regarding zakat and khums. My annual zakat and khums that I need to pay is due in August. However, I am currently saving money to buy a house to live in which I may buy in September (Allah willing). My question is do I still need to pay zakat and khums on these savings for the house, even tough this would means that I will no long be able to buy the house in September and will have to wait long to save the money again? Jazakallah khair ul jazaa, wal salaam.
Answer:
As far as you did not buy and reside at the house ich you intend to
buy, all the money which will be with you on the date of Khums, must be
calculated for Khums purpose.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 1515 - 2014-06-18 03:00:01
Question:
Salam alaikum, you said that Husband and wife (whether in permanent or Mut'a marriage) are allowed to have phone sex between them, and if ejaculation takes place out of that , it will be allowed, but they are not allowed to masturbate by touching or playing with their own body. My question is that is it allowed then to ejaculate without use of hands?
Answer:
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touching your private parts by your self, then it is allowed.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi=E2=80=8B
Question ID 1516 - 2014-06-18 03:07:49
Question:
Salam Alikum, i have two questions 1)if a man and women were in muta marriage and they do this muta marriage for a time period up till they do permanent marriage, is the muta marriage is valid or not? 2)if a man and women were in muta marriage and they forgot to end the muta marriage and directly did permanent marriage will the permanent marriage is valid or not? please provide answers quickly.
Answer:
Q 1)if a man and women were in muta marriage and they do this muta marriage
for a time period up till they do permanent marriage, is the muta marriage
is valid or not?
A1) Mut'a marriage time must be defined and not kept for unknown date. If
the time was not defined clearly, such marriage will be then permanent
marriage. Q 2)if a man and women were in muta marriage and they forgot to
end the muta marriage and directly did permanent marriage will the
permanent marriage is valid or not?
A2) In such case, Mut'a marriage is still valid because it was not
terminated. They need to terminate it when ever they want if the time of it
did not expire, then they should have permanent Nikah (Aqd) recited. It can
be done by them if they know how to pronounce it, otherwise they may seek
help from some one who knows how to pronounce it.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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